Page 91-Overt sexism, overt racism over (in some areas of Britain) (though covert, micro-agressions, overt racism, sexism do still very much exist) but overt homophobia is more easily excused, in workplaces/schools-teachers not outwardly full of prejudice but discomfort shown
Page 78-Perceiving yourself as the threat
Page 112-Traumatised child/judgement/grandiosity/ black & white thinking
Page 122-Addicted to feeling bad
Page 110-Dissociating doesn't just block bad feelings it blocks good ones too
Page 76- Abuse-Macroform
Page 126- Gay panic at relationship/authentic selves
Page 109-Addictive behaviours assumed to be because of incest but most commonly due to chronic humiliation/emotional abuse- 15% perceive we are defective + have low self esteem
Page 77-Gay people likely to be hyper criticised/hyper vigilant
Page 269-"Pink Clouding"
Page 263-Codependents anonymous
Page 330-What's life about?
Page 46-Minority Panic-Hatred for activists
Page 49-Abandonment in friendships
Page 152-Self objectification tops/bottoms-app culture/herd mentality
Page 153-64/80% of BAME encountered racism on the gay scene
Page 259-Spirituality
Page 45-Michael Causer
Page 148-Negative Mirroring- "Human beings don't like others who display the things they don't like in themselves"
Page 281-Hating on other gays & pride
Page 283-David's recovery story
Page 270-HALT-hungry, angry, alone, tired
Page 32-Gay superiority/Drama therapists
Page 272-"Transcending meditation"
Page 299--Straight Ethan/homophobic bullying for wanting to be actor
Page 278-Trauma in the body
Page 308-Straight celebrities fighting for LGBT rights
Page 345-"Straightsplaining"- death of Trans man Brandon Jeena "F you transphobia" "F this cis whte b"
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